
My family doesn't at all support this. My uncle, aunt and parents have all tried to convince me that I should not participate in the triathlon, multiple times each. They have tried to discourage me in so many different ways, including a comparison of Albert Einstein trying to be Michael Phelps. There IS a hidden compliment in there. This weekend, I told my dad that the more they try, the more driven I am to do it.
I know it's because they are concerned and don't want me to get hurt. No one in my family has done anything like this before and as I mentioned in a previous post, I have never been considered an athlete. They also don't know (have not asked) how rigorous the training has been, to prepare me. To them, I'm working one day and swimming in the Hudson the next. Most importantly, they are worried about my heart condition. I have
mitral valve prolapse, which is a non-threatening condition that I have had all my life.
Not having my family's support is harder than I expected. I thought I could just do without it, but this is such a big deal for me, that having my family at the finish line would have been amazing. In a moment of weakness, I did the whole, "I respect that you don't want me to do it but I'm gonna do it anyway. And even if you don't believe in me, my friends and coworkers do. In the form of two thousand dollars!"
I will see a cardiologist in two weeks to make sure I'm good to go and to ease my family's worry. I will be ok. I will do this race. And my family will be proud of me.